TLC Announces $1,000,000 Gift of Love on Valentine’s Day!

Hi Tennis and Life Friends,

Tennis & Life Camps is thrilled and grateful to announce the receipt of a $1,000,000 gift from Boy and Betty Toy, longtime TLC supporters.  The gift honors the work of the TLC summer staff for going above and beyond the duties of a regular job and acknowledges the impact summer staff make on the lives of thousands of campers.

This endowed gift — meaning a permanent account is created where only an annual spending allowance is used — is a game changer for TLC summer wages in being able to continue to recruit, retain, and financially reward excellent instructors and staff.

But really, this is a love story.

• It is about love for a country – the U.S. – that over seventy years ago welcomed Boy and Betty with open arms as immigrants who had survived near-starvation and brutality in their separate villages as children in Japan-occupied China during World War II.  Boy recalls those war torn years living in constant fear of life or death. Boy and Betty have never forgotten being welcomed to America, a new land to start over in safety and peace.
• It is about the love of two people finding each other in, of all places, Duluth, MN.  They married over 60 years ago and have rarely been seen apart since.
• It is about the love of education.  They both saw education as a path to a better life, and when they received their degrees, spent their professional lives as educators in public schools, giving back what they had received.
• It is about the love of tennis.  They did not start playing until they were in their 40s.  And it was love at first sight.  They became passionate about the game and a fixture in the Upper Midwest tennis scene as volunteers at many events over the years.
• It is about the love for Tennis & Life Camps founders Steve and Barb Wilkinson and Steve’s philosophy, and how it changed their lives, not just their tennis games.  Boy says he lives by the sportsmanship mantra Steve stressed over and over as not only a tennis lesson, but a life lesson.  “If the ball is 99% out, you must

  

  call it good for your opponent,” because otherwise you will be cheating (knowingly or unknowingly) your opponent out of something that is rightfully theirs.

• And, finally, it is about the love for the TLC staff that Boy and Betty wanted to somehow reward for their work.  They saw the grinding work our staff members do for many hours in the heat, seven days a week and still embrace the Three Crowns of Positive Attitude, Full Effort, and Good Sportsmanship as their guiding principle.  But, what Boy and Betty saw – and why they want to recognize and financially reward the staff – is their unselfish attitude off court and the joy they have being with each other and the campers.  How theysee staff go above and beyond the call of duty.  How they carry in luggage, eat with campers, get to know campers as people and not just players, learn everyone’s name, even sing TLC camp songs with campers at the top of their lungs about how to make the world a better place with kindness, openness and humor.
• Perhaps the most telling – and to me, beautiful – love of all is Boy and Betty recognizing, as former public educators, what is truly important in life.  Steve Wilkinson wrote near the end of his life of giving to others in so many ways, including the gifts he and Barb provided philanthropically: “We are stewards of our possessions, not owners.  We are obligated to be charitable, not just from our surplus, but from everything that exceeds our needs for a modest lifestyle.”